The manifestation of fear of marriage is that you only want to fall in love and do not want to get married, even if you agree to get married, you are not actively preparing for marriage, you are getting more and more grumpy or silent before the marriage, and you are worried about losing your freedom after marriage and unhappy marriage. They need family and friends to accompany them and encourage them, relieve their anxiety, eliminate their fear of marriage, and regain their confidence in marriage.
1. Just want to fall in love, not get married
Many people with fear of marriage will avoid the topic of marriage, directly skip the topic or change the topic, do not want to discuss with you that love is two people together, marriage is two people together, there is no need to get married.
2, even if they agree to get married, they do not actively prepare for marriage
If they agree to get married under the efforts of the other party, the person suffering from marriage phobia will not have a positive attitude towards matters related to marriage preparation, not only will not help, but also will make negative behaviors to a certain extent, interfering with the marriage process.
3. Short-tempered or withdrawn
The closer the marriage period is, the people who are afraid of marriage will be more and more grumpy, because the marriage matter is like a mountain in their hearts, so that their hearts are full of shadows, perhaps a marriage progress inquiry will cause quarrels with lovers. They may also become more and more withdrawn, isolate themselves from the world, do not want to contact relatives and friends, and use work or other things to numb themselves from thinking about marriage.
4. Worry about married life
The most obvious feature of many people with fear of marriage is that they will always worry about their married life, worry that they can not take both work and family into account, worry that they are bound by marriage, lose their freedom, worry that they can not live well with each other's families in the future, and even have not been married, they are already worried about marriage breakdown leading to divorce.
People with these symptoms of marriage phobia especially need more encouragement from family and friends to eliminate their fear of marriage and regain their confidence in marriage. If it is really unable to let the fear of marriage patients out of the fear of marriage, then may wish to accept the counseling of psychologists, they have more professional methods to treat them.