There are two situations for proposing marriage and engagement in different places: one is to arrange the proposal and engagement together, and the other is to first propose the marriage in person and then discuss the engagement date. Cross regional betrothal and engagement can be arranged on similar days, and the engagement ceremony can be conducted directly after the betrothal. Alternatively, one can first come to the bride's home to propose, and then discuss the engagement date with the bride's family, selecting an auspicious day for the engagement ceremony.
Process of long-distance marriage and engagement
1. Both parents discussed
No matter where the engagement banquet is held, both parents must meet first because engagement is a preparation for marriage and an important moment. During the engagement, both parents need to negotiate many pre marital details.
2. Appointment Ceremony
In the process of engagement, betrothal gifts must not be less, which has been the focus of Chinese engagement since ancient times. Today's betrothal gifts basically include four gold or gift money, which should be determined according to the man's economic situation. There is no need to compare. A man can only use his heart. Of course, it is best to meet the woman's requirements within his ability.
It's not easy to meet in a different place, so it's best for the man to prepare in advance and bring it together when we meet.
3. Determine the engagement location
When parents meet to negotiate, they must also determine the location of the engagement. As it is a distant place, it is necessary to first discuss where to hold the engagement, and then decide whether to have dinner at home or choose a wedding hotel or other specific locations.