There is no need to propose after engagement. Because in the normal chronological order, you propose first, then get engaged, then get married. Before the marriage proposal, both men and women are lovers, and then it is determined as an unmarried couple and a formal husband and wife relationship. So the first proposal followed by engagement is in accordance with the logical order of time, and the proposal has lost its own meaning after the engagement.
1. There is no need to propose after engagement
Because according to the ritual order, the proposal comes first, the engagement comes second. Engagement means that both people have entered the state of preparation for marriage, and the proposal loses its meaning after the engagement. However, if you are very concerned about the ceremony of marriage proposal, you can also make up, of course, proposing at the engagement wedding is also a choice to kill two birds with one stone.
Second, the reason for proposing before getting engaged
1. Chronological order
Generally speaking, according to the chronological order, it is the first proposal, then engagement, and finally marriage, before the proposal, the two people are lovers, and then step by step to determine the unmarried couple, the formal relationship between husband and wife, so the first proposal and then engagement is in line with the time logical order, most new people will choose this order.
2. Sense of ritual
In fact, the proposal ceremony is a process to meet the sense of ceremony of both parties, representing a commitment, so before the engagement, the proposal will be more ceremonial, rather than a follow-up feeling, girls who attach importance to the sense of ceremony will generally choose to accept the proposal first, and then engage.
3. Focus on commitment
The ceremony of marriage proposal can be large or small, but even if only a simple "marry me", this is also a kind of attention and commitment, girls always yearn for the scene of boys proposing to themselves, which represents the commitment and attention of the other party, so the first proposal can give girls a stable sense of security, for more sensitive girls, or the first proposal will be more secure.