When politely refusing the confession of others, the attitude must be firm, do not leave hope for the other party, but in order to reduce the harm to the other party, the reason for refusing to try to lead to their own body. If it is an acquaintance, you can refuse it in person, and people who are not familiar with it can refuse it through social software. It is not recommended that you reject immediately after the end of the confession, it is best to slow down for a day or two, to give the other party a buffer, to prepare psychologically.
1. Be firm
If you don't like the other person, you have to refuse to the end, don't give the other person hope, otherwise it will only hurt him more.
2. Treat each other with dignity
To some extent, the rejection of others' confession has already hurt each other's self-esteem, so we can't let this hurt continue to expand. When refusing, try to draw the problem to yourself, and then use the other party's shortcomings to lead to the reason for your final refusal, such a refusal is not against the sense of violation, but also let the other party understand your meaning, euphemistically rejected him.
3, the way to choose
For different people, the way to refuse to choose well, acquaintances you can choose to meet to solve the problem, strangers or poor relationship you can borrow QQ, wechat and other social software to refuse. Remember not to find someone to pass on the rejection message, so as not to let the other person feel that you look down on him, which will cause a great blow to self-esteem.
4. Choose the right time to say no
It is not recommended that you refuse to face to face after the end of the confession, which will be very difficult to confess, you can delay a day or two, and then refuse the other side, give him a buffer period after the confession, so that you are psychologically prepared.