Seven years of marriage is called copper marriage, which means that seven years of marriage makes the feelings of husband and wife more solid, but like copper, this metal has not reached the level of beauty and refinement, marriage still needs to be carefully cared for and run in with each other.
Why is it called bronze marriage after seven years of marriage
Seven years of marriage is called copper marriage, which means that seven years of marriage makes the feelings of husband and wife more solid, but like copper, this metal has not reached the level of beauty and refinement, marriage still needs to be carefully cared for and run in with each other.
Seven years of marriage is often described as the itch of seven years, refers to the marriage by love, marriage into the seventh year, with the familiarity of the husband and wife, romance and chic with the pressure of life disappeared, marriage into the first dangerous period. Here's how to deal with the seven-year itch.
Two, solve the seven-year itch getting along skills
Do the following to make marriage and family life more harmonious.
1. Share housework and family responsibilities
Two people form a small family, they become the master of a family, it is necessary to pay efforts to assume responsibility.
Running a family is very tiring, and various household chores will slowly occupy the sweet and worry-free time of two people. If a party blindly throws housework to each other, it is easy to cause dissatisfaction with the other party over time. And this time generally will have children, after the child is born the burden is more heavy, two people must help each other, support each other, understand the true meaning of marriage.
2. Keep it romantic and surprise every now and then
Although the years of marriage are getting longer, the two people are exposing themselves more and more in front of each other, and life tends to be dull, but this is the case, it is necessary to create some surprises from time to time to bring some passion to life.
To remember the special days belonging to the two people, the annual wedding anniversary, the other party's birthday, etc., can prepare a small gift or small surprise, and even when the other party comes home tired from work late, you can make tea for it or press a shoulder, and then say "love me dearly, my husband/wife is really tired, rest days can help you make up" and so on.
3, timely communication, try not to let the conflict overnight.
In a number of social surveys, it was found that couples who have been in love for many years mentioned not letting conflicts stay overnight when they mentioned maintaining their marriage status, indicating the importance of timely communication in marriage.
Don't be a boring pot in marriage, after all, no one is your stomach worm, can really know what you are thinking and why you are doing it. It is best to stop the quarrel in time when the two sides are emotionally on top, give yourself a few hours to calm down with each other, and then be sure to communicate with each other in time to talk about the contradiction, if you have been letting the accumulation of depression will only aggravate the discontent.