Meet the man first to say hello: when the man to the woman's home, must be polite, to greet the woman and the woman's parents first and praise the woman and her parents. Explain the purpose of the visit: after taking a seat, the man's family should explain the intention of the visit to the woman's family. Express the idea: to express the idea of the marriage, and ask the wife's family opinion.
First, how to express the proposal
1. Say hello first
When the man goes to the woman's home, he must be polite, meet with the woman to say hello, the man's mouth can be sweet, praise the woman's parents and how the woman is good, coax them to be happy, convenient to talk about marriage, and also leave a sincere impression.
2. State your purpose
After sitting down, you can cut to the topic, the man can say "we are here this time, mainly to talk about the marriage of our son and your daughter, and discuss some things in advance", the woman can agree to continue to talk with him.
3. Speak your mind
When the man proposes, he must not be able to make his own decisions like a robber snatching his relatives, and he does not listen to the woman's opinions during the whole process of discussing the marriage, otherwise the marriage can be yellow. Ask the woman more "what do you think about this", or "Do you think it is OK to do this", etc., because the marriage requires the participation of two families.
Second, the attention of the proposer
1. Prepare before the proposal
When the man comes to the door, he must be neatly DRESSed and polite. Ask the girl's parents to agree to your marriage, and confirm the wedding date after being confirmed. The date should be set by the woman's family before the proposal to show respect. When put forward, the man said to the woman's parents, "My parents want to find time to visit the home, I wonder when you are free."
2. Date of proposal
The day of the proposal, if you mind, choose a good day. If there are taboo words, do not propose marriage in the first month and July of the lunar calendar. The double lunar calendar, or the Gregorian lunar calendar are even days, will be more pleasing.
3. Propose gifts
Proposing is the need to prepare some greeting, can not go empty-handed, otherwise it will appear very disrespectful, do not respect the woman's family. You can buy some tobacco and alcohol for the father-in-law (do not touch tobacco and alcohol can send tea), buy some nutrition or health products for the mother-in-law, and then buy some good fruits, snacks, if there are local specialties can also be appropriate to buy some, let them taste.