The "seven-year itch" is a marital phenomenon, meaning that marriage after a passionate love, marriage into the seventh year, as the husband and wife become more and more familiar, romance and chic with the pressure of life disappeared, marriage into a dangerous period. The two parties may increase the frequency of arguments and even face the risk of marriage breakup.
First, the reason for the itch of seven years of marriage
"Seven-year itch" is because people generally have burnout psychology, and a person for a long time will occasionally produce some boredom psychology, especially when there are contradictions in living habits and other aspects; Secondly, as the two people become more familiar with each other and remove all disguises, more and more shortcomings may be exposed, which is no longer the perfect state in the early stage of love or marriage; Moreover, in the seventh year of marriage, there are generally children, and the husband and wife are both old and young, under great pressure, and their emotions are easier to ups and downs.
Since when does the two - or seven-year itch count
1. Start by being in love
From the beginning of love, two people formally established an intimate relationship, gradually entered each other's lives, more and more understanding of each other, so the seven-year itch can also be counted from the beginning of love.
2. Count from marriage
Marriage here can refer to obtaining a license or holding a wedding ceremony, both of which are symbols of the conjugal relationship in the secular or legal sense. The two sides formally formed a family, but also into each other's family, is no longer in a state of love only to consider themselves and each other, and to assume more responsibilities, so from this point on is also OK.