The meaning of one and six rites
1, the bride: the man's family invited a matchmaker to the woman's home to propose marriage, the woman's family agreed to discuss the marriage, the man's family prepared a ceremony to propose marriage.
4, levy: also known as Na yuan, refers to the man's family will be sent to the woman's family before marriage.
5, the request period: the male family chooses the wedding date, prepare the ceremony to inform the female family, for its consent.
1. Retainer
When engaged, the man should give the woman a certain amount of endowment money to show sincerity, the amount is best for even numbers, meaning good things in pairs, blessing the new and hemeimei.
3. Jewelry
At the time of engagement, the man needs to give the woman three gold (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings) or hardware (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold bracelets, gold pendants), or can be discounted to the woman.
5. Banquet ceremony
At the time of engagement, the man needs to go to the woman's home or hotel to participate in the engagement party, and some regions require the man to discount the banquet money to the woman.
When the man comes to the door, he needs to carry a certain amount of gift, and the specific amount of gift can be determined by referring to local customs.
2. Greeting gift