The meaning of 'returning home' refers to a woman getting married. The two characters "Yu Gui" mainly come from the "son Yu Gui" in the Book of Songs, which in ancient times referred to a woman getting married. Returning, returning. In ancient times, it was believed that when a woman married into her husband's family, it was the true meaning of returning home, that is, the husband's family was the ultimate destination for a woman.
1、 The origin of allusions
1. The poem 'Zhou Nan, Tao Yao' - 'When the son returns home, it is suitable for his family' refers to a woman getting married.
2. Zhu Xi's "Collection of Biographies" - "Women say that when they marry, they return home
3. Sun Renru, a Ming Dynasty scholar, wrote in "A Concubine in the Eastern Palace": "They gathered together in the boudoir, afraid that they would not be able to be together when they returned
4. In the future, when I return home, I don't know what kind of man I am married to, which will make me feel sad and depressed
5. Act 2 of Guo Moruo's "The Flowers of Tangdi": "I remember you still have a sister, I'm afraid she has already returned, right
2、 The process of returning to joy
1. The welcoming team sets off (firing cannons upon arrival)
2. After the man arrived at the woman's house, he started the wedding game
3. Escort the wedding procession back to the groom's home
4. Newcomers prepare to welcome guests together
5. The return banquet ceremony begins
6. The wedding banquet begins
7. Newcomers and parents start toasting
8. The banquet is over, let's send off the guests together