The phrase 'marrying with a child' comes from the poem 'Dripping Heavenly Marrow', which means that the bride becomes pregnant before marriage and holds a wedding ceremony to deceive others. Mainly constrained by various objective conditions such as the social and political environment, medical conditions, public opinion, and the needs of children at that time, it was necessary to do certain things. However, with the development of modern civilization, people have begun to break the traditional concept of "marrying with children". We should encourage those born out of love to marry with their children.
Is it okay to get married with a child
1. Observe the relationship between both parties
If both parties love each other and their values, personalities, and interests are all suitable, getting married with a child would be a happy thing; If the relationship between the two parties is average and the pregnancy is unexpected, marrying with a child in this situation may not lead to a happy married life.
2. Look at both families
Some families may withhold dowries due to a girl marrying with a child, causing conflicts. In such cases, marrying with a child is not good; But some families show great care for their girls and are not stingy with dowry money, so getting married in this way is happy.