There is a folk belief that it is best not to be a bridesmaid more than three times, as it may prevent one from getting married. This is actually a bit superstitious, mainly due to personal reasons of bridesmaids.
1、 Why can't I be a bridesmaid more than three times
1. Age growth
The bridesmaids at Chinese weddings are usually unmarried single women. Good friends don't get married immediately or consecutively, so there will be a period of time between each couple's marriage. If you keep being invited by your friends to be a bridesmaid, it will indirectly indicate that you are getting older next year but still haven't found your significant other.
2. Pre marital phobia
When bridesmaids are always by the bride's side, they can see the couple's arguments before marriage and hear the bride's complaints about the groom, which exacerbates their pre marital phobia and constantly reminds them to choose their future husband carefully, leading to a constant inability to find their own happiness.
2、 Solution for bridesmaids who have exceeded three times
1. Learn to enjoy the romantic atmosphere and joy of weddings
Although there may be disharmony between the newlyweds during the preparation period, it is still a minority. When you attend a wedding, every aspect is filled with romance and beauty, so you need to learn to enjoy the romantic atmosphere and joy of the wedding, and not put too much psychological pressure on yourself.
2. Be good at discovering the strengths of others
Everyone has their own shining points. When understanding someone, it is not only important to identify their shortcomings, but also to discover their strengths. People have their own ways of getting along with each other, and they are good at discovering the strengths of others. You will find that there are still many people around you who are suitable for you, and in the end, you will definitely find your lifelong partner.